#APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Being your best self in break ups benefits those in relationship and carries out to the community.- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly You can fix a bad relationship by utilizing these tools. Remember: Consider transformation.
Our brains will rewrite our memories to fit how we feel about the relationship, so try to end the relationship well #breakinguppoly #apw2014- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Daniel Gilbert's Stumbling on Happiness has great information on how our brains will shift memories.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly How we handle the break up and the post-break up days will represent our memory of the whole relationship.
- If there's been abuse, you are encouraged to talk about it publicly #breakinguppoly #apw2014
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly You don't need to rehash the rant with friends - you're only torturing yourself! Write an elevator pitch to explain
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly It is ok to ask friends to inform you if your ex will be present at an event so you can choose to go or not.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Plus we like our ability to choose our relationships. We don't like being told what to do. #Poly
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly The #poly community is too small to be dividing up social lines based on break ups.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Custody of friends: In heteronorm culture it's normal for people to maintain separate social circles.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly The break up reflects your honor and respect of the relationship you had. Even if your other is being spiteful.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Breakup doesn't have to happen in one large conversation. It can be broken up in small pieces.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly We will replay the break up conversation in our heads. Let's enjoy it.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Consider: Break up conversation as a moment to reminisce about the good parts of the relationship.
Here's that essay by @franklinveaux on radical honesty: http://tacit.livejournal.com/373355.html #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly It's ok for breakee to ask for definition of new relationship. It's also ok to ask for things you need.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly Don't beg. It takes two to enter a relationship, it only takes one to end it. Begging may damage future transition.
- #APW2014 #BreakingUpPoly You deserve to be your best self. Breaks up are not about revenge, blame.
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