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- The following is my experience with The Tao of Badass, a crash course in dating and attraction by Joshua Pellicer. Joshua was a normal guy who had problems dating, and after a particularly bad experience one night, he decided to get serious about finding answers to his dating issues. I could relate to the sales video on his site, so I purchased the course to see if it could help my hopeless situation. It was a last ditch attempt for me - spending money on something like this isn’t something I’d normally do. But I’m 30 years old, and dating just get sharder and harder around my age. It turned out that was something Joshua could explain too!
One of the first things I learned from The Tao of Badass was the word “propinquity.” What the heck is that? It’s a term that refers to the physical or psychological proximity between two people which can lead to attraction. The older you get, the harder it is to put yourself in situations where you can find propinquity. That was exactly my problem. I already knew everyone at work, and obviously I had graduated from school ages ago, so I was struggling to meet people since I had no physical proximity to women I was interested in. Propinquity also refers to mindset, though,and there’s where building rapport with new women comes in. And that’s the main focus of this course—how to read what other women are thinking when they meet you and get to know you,and how you can build a connection which can lead to a date or even a long-term relationship.
What’s Inside the Course?
For $97.00 I got The Tao of Badass eBook and four bonus books, Monogamy vs. Polyamory, Never Get Cheated On, Escaping the Friend Zone and Guide to Breaking Up. There isn’t one uniting overall theme that ties the entire set together, but rather a lot of tips for different aspects of attraction, starting relationships, and maintaining relationships. Personally I found this more useful than I’d have found a “system,” since there’s really no such thing as a perfect one-size-fits-all system for attraction. It made a lot more sense to me to just read tips which could help me figure out some new ways to approach women and fix some of the things I was doing wrong.
I learned a lot of “turn-offs” I was making the mistake of doing without realizing it, and I also learned how to approach women in environments and situations where I have always been uncomfortable (like in a store, on the street, or so on—learning how to do this is totally necessarily after you’ve reached a certain age). The book also taught me about rapport and how to establish it, flirting tips I’d never have thought of on my own, and how to respond to the hidden tests that women were subjecting me to in order to see if I was the right guy.
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- Most of the tips in the book rely on learning how to read women, which is one of the reasons that this has been such a helpful course to me. I have flat out never been able to read anyone, least of all the other sex. Learning the different physical and verbal cues women give (intentionally and otherwise) has really helped me to become more observant. That’s helped me not only get better at interpreting whether I’m doing well or need to change something when I’m hitting on a new lady, but also whether I really have a basis for developing any genuine connection with her. I used to go after girls who weren’t really a good fit for me all the time. Now since I’ve become more observant I’ve gotten better at singling out the women who are more likely to work for me.
Am I Getting Results?
I still haven’t found a long-term partner, but I’ve actually been getting dates, and for me that’s a huge step forward. I was starting to think that the time for dating was over, and that I’d left my social possibilities behind when I graduated from college. But I’ve been learning how to frequent locations where I see someone who interests me and establish rapport - those are both ways of creating propinquity, and it really does work. I’ve gone out with a dozen gorgeous ladies in the past 4 months, and now that I’m finally getting back out there, I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before I meet someone really great.
The best part of the course was definitely the main eBook, and the Members area of the website has also been a great resource and a way to connect with community members and share experiences and suggestions. Most of the bonus eBooks were also helpful. The only negative I can cite in the course is the book on polyamory. The author has some serious misconceptions on this topic, and if you follow his suggestions,you’ll be setting yourself up for a mess. This is one negative in what is otherwise an excellent course. Just keep in mind that the author of The Tao of Badass is definitely a monogamous guy who has experiences with dating multiple women simultaneously and openly, but not maintaining multiple serious long-term fulfilling commitments. That should give you the perspective you need to get the most from his course.
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All in all, this has been an outstanding course, and definitely been well worth every penny I spent on it. As a guy who was skeptical about being able to buy a solution to my dating problems, I have been pleasantly surprised and impressed. Getting back in the dating market again has been priceless. I feel much more confident now and I know that one of these days I’m going to meet a really amazing lady. And when I do, I’ll be ready to make a great impression thanks to what I’ve learned from The Tao of Badass.