What really matters

An interview with a father and daughter

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  1. I interviewed John Buksh, 45, and his daughter, Sharmira, 5 to find out what the most important thing in life was for them.
  2. John Buksh with his daughter, Shamira, 5.
    John Buksh with his daughter, Shamira, 5.
  3. I interviewed John first as Shamira was busy in another room drawing. However, they both responded by saying spending time with family was what really mattered to them.
  4. John let out an audible sigh when he was asked the question: "What is the most important thing in life for you?". After a long pause, John responded by saying that family was what really mattered.
  5. John was frowning when he gave his response so I asked him what was troubling him.
  6. John covered his face with his hands as if he was deep in thought. Then he uncovered his face and said that life was different for him in Fiji.
  7. The emphasis on lifestyle difference were elaborated upon when John explained how the culture was different.
  8. John starting shaking his head in disagreement as he continued to talk about how people in Australia are too caught up in consumerism and buying things they don't really need.
  9. John appeared to be in deep thought when I broke the silence and asked him what the difference was in Fiji?
  10. He explained how food was not meant to be eaten alone or on the run.
  11. I asked John did he miss life in Fiji and the time he had with his family there. He started to get emotional as he responded.
  12. The death of a family member reminds people that life is precious and family is what really matters when everything else is stripped away.
  13. Shamira, 5, joyfully walked into the kitchen where I was interviewing her father, John. She holds up a picture she had drawn. When I asked her who the people in the drawing were she joyfully said, "My daddy, mummy and me." I asked Shamira what the most important thing in life was for her.
  14. Shamira was giggling when I said she must really love being from a large Fijian family.
  15. She ran over to the bookshelf and grabbed a framed photo of her extended Fijian family at a recent birthday celebration. There was a group of people around a large table with many cultural dishes.
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