If getting married sounds like a great idea but planning the wedding gives you a chilly feeling, don't worry. You can make sure your wedding goes well even if you have no idea where to begin planning. These easy, simple tips will set your feet on the right path to having an amazingly pleasant wedding experience no matter what details you want to include.
When you are giving your speech at the wedding, understand that it is okay to show emotions. The stories that you tell will most likely be very emotional, as everyone at the wedding will be expecting you to shed some tears. Let it all out, to show how much each story means to you.
If you are going to have an open bar at the wedding, make sure that there is someone to monitor the people who are drinking so that no one goes overboard. Also, everyone who purchases alcohol should have to show identification to be served. This can limit any accidents at the wedding.
Include your fiance in planning your wedding or he'll end up feeling like it wasn't really his day at all. If he says he doesn't care what you do he might just be saying that to keep you happy, so try to include him in the catering or cake choice so he has a yummy way to get involved.
If you are planning a wedding, it may benefit you to plan it in an off month. Two of the cheapest months to get married in are October and November. Marriages like anything else are a business. The demand for weddings in these months is very low, so to try to generate higher demand prices are lower.
Displaying photographs of the bride and groom adds a personal touch to any reception, but the cost of decorative picture frames can add up very quickly. Instead, string two- to three-foot sections of ribbon, faux pearls, or floral garlands in a conspicuous place near the entry to the reception site. Then, use small scrapbook clips to clip the photographs to the ribbon. This is much more affordable and prevents damage to your photos.
When you are going to get married, try to book your wedding venue at least a few months in advance. If you wait until last minute, the venue may not have any openings and you will have to scramble to find a place that will host your wedding reception on short notice.
For your first song as a couple, use something that is not only popular but has a lot of meaning for you and the person that you love. Play the first song that you ever danced to or a song that reminds you of that person to make the best of this moment.
Between your ceremony and your reception there can be a long down-time for your guests. If they can't be seated at their tables right away, choose a venue that has a bar or lounge available for them to hang out in while they wait for the guests of honor to arrive.
Tell your DJ about songs you like and songs you dislike. For example, you might not like heavy metal or rap, or there may be one particular song that turns you off. Whatever the case may be, be sure the DJ does not play it, and avoid becoming upset at your wedding.
Place a full length mirror at that head of the aisle and practice walking toward it. This will help insure a trip-free wedding day. If you are worried about a twisted ankle, choose attractive flats instead. Having footwear that is less sexy but will keep you from falling is an easy decision to make.
A wedding is a huge event that most people take extremely seriously, even though the atmosphere is ultimately going to be whimsical and romantic. It's always a great idea to seek some outside advice for your wedding, and using the tips you've read here can help you lighten the load for your big day.