HBRchat: Working Parents Fight Back

Highlights & more from Harvard Business Review's HBRchat held on September 13, 2012. For more information and to view the highlights from previous HBRchats, visit: hbr.org/web/hbrchat/home

  1. We’re in the middle of a fierce debate over working parenthood. In HBR’s September issue, Joan C. Williams and Amy J. C. Cuddy shed new light on the issue in their article, “Will Working Mothers Take Your Company to Court?

    “Women’s lack of progress toward the C-suite has been shrugged off as a by-product of personal decisions— a shift in priorities, the fire in the belly extinguished or tamped down,” write Williams and Cuddy. “Women fall behind by choice, so the thinking goes. Recent research, however, shows that even when women maintain their professional ambitions, motherhood often triggers strong and blatant workplace bias.”

    Parental bias also affects fathers — though very differently. Fathers are held to *lower* punctuality and performance standards than childless men, and were more likely to be hired and promoted. But being a father did hurt a man’s career if they took time off for caretaking.

    “Just as women are being policed out of breadwinning roles,” write Williams and Cuddy, “Men are being driven out of caregiving roles, and men are increasingly suing as well.”

    This week’s chat will focus on how parenting — and bias — affect mothers, fathers, and non-parents. And, we'll ask five questions instead of the usual three.

    Q1: To what extent should your employer care whether you have kids, or time to take care of them?

    Q2: Do you think working parents get short shrift from the private sector? Why?

    Q3: What’s the best way to address discrimination against working parents? Lawsuits?

    Q4: Have you seen examples of bias against parents in your career?

    Q5: Have you seen “best practices” of enlightened companies that others could emulate?

  2. Q1: To what extent should your employer care whether you have kids, or time to take care of them? #HBRchat
  3. @4KM @Addgene agreed! working at home can be great...still if you do the work well, your kids aren't a factor #hbrchat
  4. A1 - You can't ask if a candidate has kids in an interview….#HBRChat
  5. A1: As long as companies provide flexibility, how employees use it is up to them. #hbrchat
  6. @Marcio_Saito The challenge is in industries that cannot provide a great level of flexibility. #hbrchat
  7. @loismarketing True. And that awareness is not here in the US, because we have exported those. #hbrchat
  8. Flexability is the key. I don't think you need to be compensated for it! #HBRchat
  9. @shellybramer flexibility is key for anyone - parent or not. everyone has things to do outside of the office #HBRChat
  10. A1: Actually most employers seem to be pretty flexible, especially in IT. #HBRchat
  11. @HBRexchange a1) personal life dictates professional efficiency. an employer must not be intrusive, concerned envt will help #hbrchat
  12. A1 - as an ex-ceo of a digital agency it didn't matter to me. as long as people got their work done….#HBRChat
  13. Had a chat about this (f2f & online) from #OCE2012 Most home office folks drew hard lines; one loved the mix of roles #HBRchat
  14. Most cases no need for details but I have worked alongside staff who had very unpredictable child care. Can become issue #HBRChat A1
  15. A1: I seem to be more efficient when working from home. I think virtual office has helped in making it easier. #HBRChat
  16. One often neglected item; parenthood can yield great insights for the workplace #HBRchat
  17. Agree parenthood adds a depth of perspective, to say nothing of the added incentive to stay gainfully employed! #HBRchat
  18. A1. As a single man, I have full respect for parents believe that it makes them more responsible, mature and committed to work #HBRChat
  19. to say that being a father or mother will impede my productivity is ridiculous #HBRChat
  20. @mikepweiss "increasingly common, telecommuting may be hazardous to employee evaluations." ht.ly/dGUs9 via @MITsmr #HBRchat

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